Reality Check

REALITY CHECK by Takara

Because of my line of work/play, I know endless numbers of people that call themselves teachers and/or healers. These are individuals who assist others – or try to – in healing, empowerment, and enlightenment. They may write books. They may do “readings.” They may offer hands on healing or other forms of energy work. They may channel. If you are one of those people – listen up. If you seek help from those individuals, then listen up. The channel is only as clear as the channel is clear. Yes I’ve said that before. And I will continue to say it.

If a person’s life isn’t working, if their health is failing, if they can’t pay their bills, if they keep having one disaster after another, then they have work to do. That work is on themselves, and not others. You can’t help anyone until you have helped yourself.

On the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness (1 to 1000), where do they sit?

Where do you sit? The answer to that question is vital. What is the percentage of “truth” in this book, in this sentence, in the readings being given by so and so? I often ask these questions about myself and others. Its time that you start asking those questions as well.

Just because a person has the ability to hear, or see, or feel something that you don’t, doesn’t mean that what they are “getting” is good information or even beneficial information for you or anyone else. In fact, sometimes it can be very disempowering and detrimental information. And you will believe it. And then you will go down the wrong road. You will be off track. You will be heading away from your goal of personal evolution, instead of towards it.

I see it happening every day.

Now on the one hand, if you listened to what someone else had to say and went down a detrimental path, it was for the learning. On the other hand, you don’t have to do that. You can use discernment.

Its time to take back your power. It is time to trust your own answers and guidance.

And if you are a teacher or healer, it is time to work on yourself. In From Fear to Freedom there is an empowerment gage. All you have to do is look at the gage and you know instantly where you need work. Even without the gage, you can ask yourself any of the questions about how things are going with your relationships, your health, your career, your finances, the amount of fluidity or drama you exerience, and you know instantly that you need work and in what area. You are never done. You are never finished.

What happens when psychic gifts open up suddenly? From what I’ve seen, the person’s ego becomes so huge they forget that they are still human and have endless lessons still to learn. They think that they “have arrived” and they have all this great stuff to offer others. In their own mind they are the grand teacher, the great guru, the great savior of humanity.

Unfortunately, all information goes through the human mind and if the human mind is still cluttered with falsehood – which it is unless you have done massive amounts of deep work to clear that out – then the information, even the energy, is tainted.

Stop fooling yourself and get to work.

I admit that I don’t have all the answers. I admit that I still have work to do in certain areas. I’m very clear about where I need more work and I focus on those areas. I do tangible physical things to make improvements. I seek council and read books from those who have mastered those areas.

How about you?

First, on the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness, where are you? If the answer is below 500, then your main priority in life should be to get above 500. If you are above 500, then steadily evolve toward 1000.

How do you answer these questions? You learn to dowse or muscle test. I prefer a pendulum because by using a chart you can get the answer instantly instead of having to ask tons of questions to narrow it down to one number.

If you are muscle testing with another person, can that person influence the answer?

ABSOLUTELY!

What?

Thought is powerful. If the person muscle testing has an opinion about the answer to the question being asked, they can and will affect the answer. It takes skill and a great deal of practice to ask questions without expectations of outcome.

How do I know? Because I’ve muscle tested hundreds of people. And sometimes, just to prove this point, I would have them hold out their arm and without telling them what I was doing, in my mind I would think the words “I hate you” and I would try to get that feeling inside myself. Guess what happened every time? The person would lose all strength. Big burly guys couldn’t keep their arm up. My personal theory is that it is the emotion behind the words that causes the thought to have so much power. So, if you take something to your friendly neighborhood chiropractor or naturopathic physician or someone else who does muscle testing and they truly believe the thing is not beneficial, then you will test negative for the product or gizmo. Or it will show up only mildly beneficial.

And that is why I say learn to muscle test just using your fingers or use a pendulum. Find out the percentage that you are influencing the answers and then drive that number down to zero. I never dowse when I feel off-center. And I’ve learned to pull back and hold still my emotional body so I don’t influence the answers.

My dear friend and business partner, Millie Stefani – who is really up there on the Hawkins Scale – taught me this. When you pick up your pendulum and before you begin asking questions, ask if you are a green eyed grass hopper. Sometimes you will get a yes to that question. That means that your consciousness is not in your body and you are not balanced – and it means you have no business trying to dowse or muscle test until you are yourself again.

Where are you when your consciousness is somewhere else and what can you do about it? We’ll talk about that next time . . .

Feel free to comment or ask further questions by posting your own comment.

Who Would You Spend A Day With and Why?

I was flipping through the Parade Magazine in this week’s paper and saw the most intriguing article. It said if you could go back in time and spend a day with anyone, who would it be and why? Wow, the people and questions I’d have started popping like popcorn in my head.

Here are just a few. Feel free to add your own. I think this is grand food for thought.

The first and most obvious for me would be Jesus. Here are just a few of the questions I would ask him:
“People have said many things and I’ve had my own theories or insights about your life. So, tell me the real story. Were you actually nailed to a cross or is the entire thing a myth? What really happened? If you were actually tortured, did you feel any pain or were you able to “trance state” beyond all that? Were you married to Mary? Did you have children? Did you actually have 12 female and 12 male disciples? What were the exact thoughts and actions and energies you were working with to allow for the miracles? How can I do that? Was Judas a traitor or was it always part of the greater plan? Did things go exactly as they were supposed to, or did something go awry? Since I don’t believe in human sacrifice, I have a hard time believing a loving God would “sacrifice his only begotten sun.” (interesting spelling) And I believe we are all sons and daughters of God, so why do they say you were the only one. They say you “died for our sins.” I believe “sin” is wrongful thought. Why would someone have to die for that? This makes no sense to me. Some say you and your family fled to France. War and death and torture have become the passion cry of the religion created in your name. What would you say to those people? They say you are the teacher of righteousness – right use of energy. What does that have to do with hellfire and brimstone? How are you different and how are you the same as every other human walking on the planet? And on and on and on . . .

Next I would like to have a conversation with …
Nicolas Tesla. I don’t know that much about him, but I find him intriguing. “What really went down between you and Edison? Why did he fund you for a long time and then pull the plug? What would you say is the most significant and beneficial of your discoveries about energy and other things? How would you continue your work?”

I would love to talk to Original Source Creator about the beginning of the human race. O.K. so Creator is still with us. But I would love to have a conversation that I could actually understand. There is so much confusion about mankind and it’s origins. “Here are just a handful of theories about how we got here. Please give us the real deal. Did all of life evolve from pond scum and did we naturally evolve from apes? Are we a laboratory experiment somehow created from the Pleiadians and Sirians or other star races? Did we come up from the inner earth as described by the Hopi? Did God make the whole world in 7 days (and what is a day in God time anyway?). Were humans developed in 1 God-day into our current state? Or, is a God-Day such a long expanse of time from our perspective, that the evolution from pond scum into current day human was one day? Help us understand this please.”

You get the idea. Think of who you would talk to and why. Give us your thoughts.

 

25 comments:

Anonymous said…

Why did He have to die for our sins??

Karma clearing can take a million years. To get unentangled from the energies that enter with sin will go faster through mutual forgiveness. Sometimes you are the only one willing to forgive. Say your karmic debt is 750 dollar, the average debt of cc holders. You can ask for forgiveness in Jesus name because he is willing to let you use His cc. Then your cup can overflow with healing energy/chi..

Healing like He did you do by finding Him. This is by opening your Heart. Praying all the energies (demons He is surrounded with), chaINS AROUND YOUR TRUE SELF OUT. He told me He is like Houdini and always comes free. Everything we put in our hearts that was not Love, chains our true selves. Energies (demons??0 now can block our perfect health, energy flow/connection with God and we even have the experience of being seperate from God.

If you really want to get to Him, you would need to break free from the ties with the world. Breaking with the ego-mind snake and move to Christ consciousness (there is no dualistic thinking then, only God, only Light and not with an opposite, One Love, One Heart. In the real (is real israel, the promised land where paradise is regained, milk and honey, gold and silver light) Love is All/

Takes a lot of work, and yes you need to be free of fear as you are trying to be. Surrender to Love. It is a real fight at least for me, nothing all that easy. (I was attacked by my sin, and He is healing me now. Terrible hell, at least I cannot denie it is there now anfd there is nothing wrong livingin this illusion. It is like breaking out of the matrix kinda/./)

Love

PS the life of Jesus is also illustration of the ascension process and how to kill the ego-mind, or die to your selfishness to find the true self.

angel said…

Thank you for sharing this. When I read the question Jesus was the first person who came to my mind and you asked him all the questions I was thinking. Then I thought about Tessla and the Tessla ring, you asked him many of the same questions again that I would have asked him. The only question you asked Jesus that I did not know about was the 12 men and 12 women. I was stoped dead in my tracks and needed to come to the blog and reply to you.
Namaste
Angel

angel said…

Thank you for sharing this. When I read the question Jesus was the first person who came to my mind and you asked him all the questions I was thinking. Then I thought about Tessla and the Tessla ring, you asked him many of the same questions again that I would have asked him. The only question you asked Jesus that I did not know about was the 12 men and 12 women. I was stoped dead in my tracks and needed to come to the blog and reply to you.
Namaste
Angel

Takara & Raven said…

Hi Angel:

The Pistis (sp?) Sophia mentions the 12 male and 12 female disciples and the 3 years after the resurrection that Jesus taught them personally. I haven’t read the entire book – much like the Keys of Enoch – written by the same author. Too mental for me. Yet I was guided to read the entire intro.

Takara & Raven said…

I knew, of course, that some would find the need to answer the questions posed. There are as many truths about these questions as there are people on the planet – each with their own perspectives, their own beliefs, their own truths, each as convinced as the next that they “know” the truth. It is their truth and it works for them and for that they are honored.

The question I pose to you the reader is who you would want to talk with face to face, what you would ask them, and why.

Feel free to answer the other questions if you feel you must. Just realize that this is not about convincing anyone that what you believe is the true. It is about sharing perspectives, allowing others to think and believe as they do, reflecting on those ideas and finding more questions in the process.

It is an inquiry with no definitive answer. We can all theorize, channel, read books, and do whatever we do, but the truth is an unknown and it should be treated as such. Regardless of who you are there is always more to grasp, more to understand, more to let go of, and more to heal. As we each evolve, our ability to comprehend truth expands and yet our realization that we know almost nothing increases exponentially. It is a grand and glorious adventure – this time on earth.

Ask where you are on the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness. Ask if you are clear and balanced in the moment of your receiving answers. If you have attained a Hawkins Scale reading of 800 or above and you can raise the dead, heal the sick, walk on water, manifest food out of thin air, and radiate love and joy wherever you go, I am thrilled to receive your insight.

Of course I am delighted to hear from you even if you are not an Avatar, Adept, or Master.

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All Spiritual Paths Lead to Love, Inner Peace, and Enlightenment

All Spiritual Paths Ultimately Lead to Love, Inner Peace, and Enlightenment

Even though there are numerous spiritual paths, many people hold strong convictions that there is only one path to God … and obviously that path is the one they are following.  It has been my experience that the higher you climb in consciousness and awareness … regardless of which of the spiritual paths your soul has chosen to help you get there … those paths all ultimately lead to oneness, inner peace, Divine love, and enlightenment. And I have met many following many spiritual paths that have gone far towards those ends.
 
I care not what path one follows … I care what’s in their heart. If they are kind, do their best to follow the Golden Rule, and are actively focused on growing and evolving as an individual, then they tend to be “my people.” And I have met many heart-centered people walking many spiritual paths. I look for those who have worked diligently to rid themselves of hatred, judgment, and fear … which taints and distorts everything they perceive, say, and do. Clarity and purity of mind, body, and spirit is a never-ending process.
All Spiritual Paths Lead to Love, Inner Peace, and Enlightenment
In the western world, most practice the Christian faith. Beloved Yeshua ben Joseph (Jesus / Sananda in his Ascended Master expression) definitely taught a path of love. Christianity, as practiced in western society, typically holds only a glimmer of what was taught by Jesus himself … people often forget or never connected the dots that he was a jew his entire life. For anyone curious about what I’m talking about, visit the work of Neil Douglas-Klotz. Just listening, intoning, and dancing the first line of the “real” Lord’s prayer can change your life. Neil went back to the actual Aramaic and developed a much more authentic translation of the original.
When I had a complete spiritual awakening back in 1993, I was soon intuitively guided to take a weekend workshop with Neil … whom I knew nothing about, but absolutely KNEW I had to learn from. I saw an ad in a magazine and instantly knew I HAD to go. It wasn’t a guess. It was an absolute inner knowing. Going there was greatly uncomfortable, because I knew nothing about Neil or his work and my personality was really rebelling as “Desert Wisdom Weekend” sounded pretty strange to me at the time. I’m so glad I went. It was glorious. It was my first real experience of sound healing. We were creating our own sounds by singing in Aramaic and other middle-eastern languages doing dances and other body prayers. It was extraordinary and truly life changing / transformational.
I have spent many moons with shaman, medicine men and women, wise elders from many indigenous cultures from all across the globe who came to teach and lead ceremony at the Spirit of Nature Retreat that I owned in New Mexico. Many of those people have far greater peace than the majority of white people (Christians or not) that most will ever meet.
I have met three actual Avatars (Master, Sage, etc.). One, in particular, exuded so much love, it literally caused me to have tears run down my face … without her saying a word. It was merely her presence and the Divine radiance that she exudes … which we, ultimately, can all become ourselves should we decide to take up that mantle for ourselves. Jesus (according to the English translation anyway) said: “know ye not that ye are gods” and “even greater things than these shall ye do.” Those are words I believe whole-heartedly.
My God, the God I stood fully in the presence of, the God I felt through every fiber of my being, the God I know to the dept of me is not a god of war, of vengeance, of anger and judgement or one that would ever require a blood sacrifice. And that is where various religions and I part company. My God is an exceedingly loving God, plays no favorites, loves absolutely unconditionally, and is delighted in it’s (beyond gender) creation which we all are. The beautiful thing about life on planet earth is that we get to decide what truth speaks to our soul. One can be deeply Divinely connected regardless of religious path, or in my case, lack of specific religious path.
The ultimate path for each person, I believe, is the one their soul pushes them to walk. For some, that means being part of a particular religion. For others, that means learning this and learning that, taking bits and pieces from all those we are Divinely guided to spend time with and then continue to climb in consciousness and awareness, to continue to heal the “sins” of fear, limiting beliefs, judgments, expectations, guilt, shame, blame, victimhood, etc. that keep us from becoming Avatars ourselves. To forgive ourselves and others for the things we have done, said, and thought this and other lifetimes. To receive insight directly through Divine revelation, and to continue to follow the still small voice within rather than what others tell us we “should” believe.
Yeshua / Sananda is a dearly beloved being of Light whom I greatly admire and do my best to emulate. His teachings of the Golden Rule (also part of every major world religion) is one I work to incorporate into my every decision, my every action. He has appeared to me on numerous occasions and I feel his distinct energy whenever I ask for him to be present.
I had a distinct memory (a flash of a vision) of walking along the shore alone with Yeshua one day and he kept saying the word Hashem. I so wish I could remember the rest of what he was saying. I assumed that it was my name in that lifetime. One day a few years later I felt “inspired” (in spirit / intuited) that I should look it up. It turns out that it is one of many names for God in Judiasm.
What I find fascinating is the large number of Jewish clients that I have. I said something about that to one of my dear friends and clients … who also happens to be Jewish. She said, “you feel Jewish to me.” The same is true of Native Americans though. I have many native friends who just don’t look at me or consider me as “separate” like they do many other Caucasians. I have been many things and I have “called in” those various lineages to my now. The closer I get to Oneness (I know I have far to go), the more I understand how all paths lead to the same place.
I don’t really tune in so much to the religion and teaching as I do to the Being behind it, the energy of The Teacher, be it Yeshua, Buddha, or some other Avatar … because that is what I believe all of us are here working to become.
From that perspective, I feel that all paths have validity. Those who are walking them are on that path on purpose. When their soul is ready for them to evolve, they will do so within that path (as beings like St. Francis and Hildegard von Bingen were able to evolve far beyond their peers and the constrictive teachings of the church at the time, while they were still within the construct of Christianity) or they will move on to the next thing their soul wants them to experience.

Hopefully by now you are aware of some of my various teachings. One of the things I often share are the 5 practices that can help you come into alignment and live what I call the Noble C’s (being calm, clear, confident, Divine connected, and courageous) in every moment. Those practices are:

When you do these things, you come into greater alignment with the truth of who you are, your own I Am Presence and allow the spark of Divinity that you are to direct your life … your words, your actions, your decisions.  From that place, you are “inspired” along your path.

Enjoy Beloveds,
Takara

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Healers, Psychics, Intuitive Coaches - It's Time to Heal

Healers, Psychics, Intuitive Coaches – It’s Time to Heal

According to the English translation of the bible, Jesus is quoted as saying: “Don’t try to remove the spec from your brother’s eye until you have removed the plank from your own.” I’m quoting from memory, so it might not be exactly those words. It is close enough for you to get the gist though.

It is very simple and wise advice really. Don’t try to help others until you yourself are healed, whole, balanced, integrated, and aligned – body, mind, and soul. Yet all over the globe wounded healers, psychics, coaches and others are trying to help clients and friends when they themselves are still an emotionally wounded mess.

 

Healers, Psychics, Intuitive Coaches - It's Time to Heal

 

Over and over again I share with you what I call the Noble C’s (calm, clear, confident, Divinely connected, and couragous) and how important it is for you to achieve and maintain that “state of being.” It is vital if you wish to live a joy-filled life, to grow and evolve as a person, rise in consciousness and awareness, reach your highest potential, manifest your true heart-felt desires, and ultimately to have the greatest possible impact in helping others.

That can’t happen if the subtle and not so subtle issues have not been discovered, acknowledge, and truly healed on all levels. People with deep issues, trauma dramas from the past that have not been properly addressed, phobias, biases, and judgments passed down through their lineages taint their every thought, word, and action. And, it keeps them from rising up higher in consciousness, and awareness.

It’s understandable how this happens … people are naturally drawn to things they need themselves. Many people in the healing arts are drawn to energy healing, life coaching, psychology and other healing fields because they themselves need work in those areas. I know when I first was “inspired” to begin creating Dancing Dolphin Alchemical Synergies (energy healing oils & mists), it was to address the numerous deep issues I myself was carrying. Physical and severe psychological abuse, rape, bullying, betrayal by a close friend, numerous experiences of love and loss, being forced to move away from who (I thought at the time) was my one true love this lifetime, and many many other issues left deep emotional scars and many unhealed subconscious issues. And that is just this lifetime.

Think of the crusades, the inquisition, slavery, the plague, the trail of tears, and so many other times and challenges that people have faced over eons of time. Those traumas, science has now proven, are passed down to the next generations.

Every person born in a female body automatically gaines a series of subcscious beliefs that they are less than, less loved by God, unworthy, etc. because of how deeply those beliefs are held by people who practice the various major world religions. Those beliefs, of course, are completely false … the Divine (by whatever name you resonate with) loves everyone everywhere (inluding animals, plants, ants, and everyhing else in creation) equally.

There is a saying (I have no idea where it came from) that the sins of the father are visited on the sons for 7 generations. When you consider “sin” to be “wrong thinking” as I do, then this new scientific discovery makes actual tangible sense with real world implications. All of this subconscious caca is skewing, tainting, and distorting the energies coming through the healers and the information the channels and psychics are “receiving” and sharing with clients.

It is particularly bad in the western world where most people have completely turned off their intuitive / feeling body. They have only their mind to trust about anything. And hopefully by now you are beginning to understand how truly untrustworthy that can be sometimes. because of false beliefs and fears held in the subconscious.

I wish the book I’m working on right now was out already so when I mention levels of consciousness. you would have a deeper understanding about what I mean. Until then, just know that to truly step into your power, to lead a life of grace, flow, freedom, and joy, to see and “know” clearly, a great deal of deep deep inner work is required.

You are never “done.” No matter how high you climb in consciousness and awareness. No matter how much information you channel or energy you “bring through,” there is always more and deeper work to be done. It is an ever upward spiral that you are journeying around.

You can tell you have work to do when you are “triggered” by anything. Triggers look like:

  • anger
  • judgment (judgment involves emotion, discernment is very logical and completely devoid of emotion)
  • upset
  • name calling
  • reactions of any kind to people or situations
  • sudden lack of confidence, self doubt, or confusion

Even just reading the news or social media can trigger your “stuff.” That’s why many people avoid both. I avoid news but spend a great deal of time on social media sharing insights.

Because of how easy it is to have skewed information coming through a channel, I rarely let anyone do energy healing work on me and almost never get “readings.” When you have healed (body, mind, soul) enough emotional baggage, have done soul retrievals and other processes that help you become more “whole,” have stepped into a state of grace, synchronicity, and a greater level of ease, are highly in tune with your intuitive/feeling body, then you can immediately “feel” and know if someone is genuine or running hidden agendas, if they are of a high level of consciousness, and if the information and energy coming through them is pure.

Every single products and program I have been “inspired” (brought in from higher dimensions to assist humanity) is designed to help you get to that place yourself … I have never met anyone living at a higher level of consciousness who hasn’t had significant help to get there. And, no matter how far they rise, there are occasions when they still need assistance. Thinking otherwise is why mamy stay stuck.

Dancing Dolphin Alchemical Synergies offer extraordinary support to help you grow and evolve, rise in consciousness and awareness, and to address the deep dark subconscious things that keep you stuck and playing small. As I evolve, the energies the synergies carry do as well.

I’ve said for years that everyone needs to go through at least 1 bottle of Forgiveness while working with the meditation and training I put together to assist. And that is definitely still true.
Yet, the more I work with the ideas I’ve shared in this article – as well as the deep dive into all these subjects that I’ll be sharing in my upcoming book – the more I realize that everyone also needs to work with the energies of Finally Free. And then in a year or two do another bottle of Finally Free. And then to continue this out into the future.

The Creative Invocations for the I Am Presence contain specific teachings, healing technologies and Dancing Dolphin transformational energies to help you integrate your Diviine aspects of self into your third dimensional reality. Visit this link to get Finally Free and Forgiveness now!

 

Enjoy life give yourself permission

Give Yourself Permission to EnJOY Life!

I read an article recently by a success guru listing all the things that are a waste of time. I agreed with most things on the list. But the first item was “watching TV.” When I saw that, I thought I would share the following with you as some food for thought about taking some time to enjoy life …

Enjoy life give yourself permission

I never watch TV per se, but this introvert has always used a movie or a couple of streamed episodes of something (commercial free) as the best wind down to a very long day of thinking, creating, consulting, and decision making. Since I don’t currently have a significant other and my son is now in college, it is not taking precious time away from loved ones to let a screen entertain my brain. We all have things that bring us joy and for some of us, that includes cinema. 

According to the “Three Boxes of Life” by the author of another book I HIGHLY recommend, “What Color is Your Parachute,” a balanced life includes equal amounts of work, play, and learning. As a professional in helping others lead a balanced, joyful, more stress-free life, I condone including some activities that allow you to just “be” vs “do” all the time.

Being visually entertained allows my brain to recharge in ways that reading and other activities do not. I also dance, do yoga, meditate, and tons of other things to take care of myself. For me, this enjoyment of storytelling in visual form feeds my soul. I read somewhere that Buckminster Fuller felt there to be only a hand full of jobs that had any merit and entertaining others was, surprisingly, on that list. I looked for the quote, but haven’t found it yet.

On the flip side, being bombarded by commercials that lead you to believe that no matter what you have you need more and watching news that makes you think the world is a very unsafe place and keeps you in fear is definitely not a good idea. That, I wholeheartedly agree with.

In almost all things, I believe in the 80/20 rule … more like 90/10. Ninety percent of the time you do things or eat things that are good for you, that are leading you towards the goals you are wishing to achieve in your personal and business life, as well as your health. 10% of the time, however, you give yourself permission to enJOY life, whatever that means for you.

Of course, if your life is out of balance, you are overweight or facing some serious health issue, or your career or finances are in serious trouble, then you have to do whatever it takes to turn that around and that means 100% of the time doing exactly the right actions to get you there.

May you truly enjoy life,
Bestselling author Debbie Takara Shelor signature

 

 

 

 

P.S. We all need support sometimes, no matter who we are, how much work we have done on ourselves, or how successful we have become. I offer consulting to help you and your business improve as well as long distance energy healing sessions to help you break through your barriers to success, happiness, and inner peace.

 

Meditation Quote Bruce Lee

Bruce Lee Quote on Magnificent U with Takara

 

Meditation Quote by Bruce Lee:

“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless – like water. Now put the water into a cup, it becomes the cup, you put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, you put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.”

 

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Harmony for the Holidays

Harmony for the Holidays

I’ve never been to a holiday gathering with family or friends where there was anything but harmony for the holidays … ever … my entire life. I’m talking about never witnessing first hand a family gathering full of discord. It doesn’t matter if it was with immediate or extended family, the family of a boyfriend, fiance, or husband, or a gathering in my own home of friends who didn’t all know one another before the gathering … harmony and delight at being in one another’s presence has always been pervasive at these events.

It begins within.

And it begins with the parents. If the parents love, honor, accept, and appreciate themselves, they also love, honor, accept, and appreciate their own parents, their siblings, their children, etc.

Each child needs to be taught to love, honor, accept, and appreciate themselves and then to extend that to others as well.

The result of such loving and honoring is harmony within all the relationships.

I can’t even imagine doing life any other way.

Harmony for the Holidays

Does that mean I’ve never encountered disharmony?

Hardly!

I went from being highly popular and enjoying so many delightful friends in schools both in New Jersey and Texas … to being severely bullied, rejected, and having only a few friends in a small town in Virginia. High school was hell … there’s no other more pleasant way to put it. The bullying was so bad that for at least a year or more I came home and cried every single day. I didn’t understand what I was doing wrong, why I didn’t fit in, why people didn’t like me. I was in such foreign territory.

I’d also never been anywhere that people pretended to like you to your face and then talked badly about you behind your back. Being an empath, you can pick up on the incongruence immediately. You can literally “feel” when someone doesn’t like you. Trust me, it doesn’t feel good.

Once I was no longer in high school (being forced to be around people who didn’t like me and, therefore, whom I didn’t like in return) I began to thrive. I quickly developed a network of friends at work and at college. I began taking a leadership role in professional organizations and that has continued to this day. I am deeply deeply blessed to have so many friends.

But that didn’t happen by accident or because I’m more special than anyone else. It happened because I got very clear that I wanted a wonderful group of friends. You might have seen other articles where I talk about the affirmations I used to say about friendship. It goes something like this, “I want interesting, fun, uplifting friends all over the world who are making a positive difference.” And now, after many years of “receiving” teachings that have helped me formulate my own teachings, I would add: “We each love, honor, accept, and appreciate one another and are deLighted to be in one another’s presence and feel blessed to have each other in our lives.”

I highly recommend you do something similar when it comes to all your relationships … romance, friendships, business partnerships, with co-workers, committee members, and everything else you participate in. Intend harmony. Intend peace. Intend cooperation, admiration, appreciation, acknowledgement, friendship, and yes, even love (not the romantic kind, the Divine unconditional kind).

When people seek my advice about romance, I help them get crystal clear about what they are looking for in both a partner and in the relationship itself. I help them form a picture in their own mind and words to describe exactly what they are seeking. And I often suggest that they add something about it being a “mutual admiration society” where you each feel truly blessed to have the other in your life.  The best relationships involve partners who continue to feel that way over time. I’m not talking about living with rosy colored glasses, not seeing the truth or flaws in the other. I’m talking about seeing them even more clearly than most and loving, honoring, accepting, and appreciating them for exactly who they are … warts and all. Both partners have to feel that way though. Honesty and integrity are key.

But just like developing harmony around the table at the holidays, you have to love yourself first. You have to see your value, your gifts, your unique magnificent glorious self with all its fabulous talents and all its spectacular flaws and love yourself, appreciate yourself, be OK with yourself when you screw up, and delight in yourself when you succeed regardless. You aren’t perfect. You are human. It just comes with the territory.

The more you learn to love, honor, accept, and appreciate you, the easier it is to do the same for others … and the more often others offer the same to you.

Back to harmony at the holidays ….

You can intend a different outcome within your home, around the table, watching the game or whatever rituals your family follows when they gather. Before people arrive you can set your intention (not being attached to it going that way) for harmony, love, happiness, laughter, joy, and fun – or whatever joyful things you wish to experience for yourself and those you love enough to invite into your home.

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Fear screws it all up of course. If you are afraid that there will be disharmony … guess what will happen?

You already know the answer.

You get more of what you focus on … so you must divert your attention AWAY from the things you do not want and TOWARD the things you do.

  • Focus on peace and feel it throughout your body and your home.
  • Focus on love and feel it throughout your body and your home.
  • Focus on harmony and feel it throughout your body and your home.
  • Focus on joy and feel it throughout your body and your home.
  • Focus on compassion and feel it throughout your body and your home.
  • Focus on deep, meaningful, conversations and feel it throughout your body and your home.
  • You get the idea … decide what you want to experience and imagine it real.
  • Tip – It is a lot easier to feel something if you close your eyes.

 

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Bring In Harmony for the Holidays

Imagine a giant bubble of light surrounding the table where you will eat and calling in your Higher Self and Guides asking that the bubble of light be infused with love, joy, laughter, delight, companionship, harmony, peace, etc. etc.

See a similar bubble around your entire home and again ask your support team to infuse it with harmony, peace, joy, and love. Add the other words that have great meaning to you and that you wish to have in your home.

See a giant block of violet flame or light (like the purple image above only less dense) over a foot thick in front of your entire front door – or whatever door people enter. Everyone who enters will be cleansed of any icky sticky disharmonious, noxious, disempowering, or negative energy as they enter. It’s like taking a beautiful violet light bath. It brightens the mood and feels totally glorious.

Tip – you don’t have to wait for the holidays to do these things. You can do it anytime you desire.

I recommend you energetically clear and infuse your conscious intention into your home, your vehicle, and other places you frequently visit. And I suggest that you do it often. To learn extraordinarily effective clearing and infusing techniques (much more powerful than simple intention), take my online dowsing course or my new Dancing Dolphin Way of Healing and Enlightenment training once I get the sales page up.

Have a delightful day today and every day,

Takara

 

“Thanksgiving table” cc license by Jameson Fink,

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